If it is no good, no one will buy into it. You may be able to fool the odd one or two but that’s about it. So the first step has to be to sort out your product and make sure it is as appealing as possible. Whilst I get lots of comments about how one has matured and is able to look below the surface, the surface is the first thing we encounter so it needs to be presentable. You have to remember when promoting yourself that first appearances count, however much you hate that truth. And worse still another cliché, women do judge a book by its cover. Almost everything in our daily lives is marketed to us and its rare we get much for free well this site being one of those rare exceptions!. So in short, you need to go into the bathroom and strip and take a good hard look at yourself. Once you have done that go and put your best clothes on and take another long hard look. The be ruthless about extreme dating. You will never date yourself as others do but do be brave enough to ask closest friends what they think too. Now at this juncture you must concentrate. You already know your good and bad points but be realistic, I know women should love you for everything you are, but lets get to that later. First of all, what can you change about yourself that you can live with and that is possible and that will help you appeal to your chosen market. Don’t sell yourself short though. You want to be appealing to as wider an audience as feasible. The also make sure you know your market. If you are 50 and overweight you may not appeal to 21 year olds however much you wish you did. Women generally date within extreme dating. Beyond that and you are generally in rarity territory. Okay so you know what can be fixed and you know your market and so the next thing is to go and do something about it. Good intentions never solved anything so get on that treadmill, join that diet class, get yourself out shopping, do get your hair cut and sort out your image. Once you have upgraded and maintained your image, your self confidence will soar. If you believe in yourself you can do anything. Positive mental attitude is the most ignored and underrated thing you can achieve extreme dating. You can turn yourself around in days and weeks buy feeling good about yourself. Okay so a few weeks down the line you have recreated your product and you have selected your market and you know it will sell so now its time to go out there and market yourself. Self promotion is the name of the game. In the same was that faint heart never won fair woman, so staying at home in front of the extreme dating.
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