Cupid online dating can send messages with words and deeds and perhaps even thoughts and subtle body and facial movements through this boundary, and others can send theirs in to you. You have little control over what women choose to send toward you, and total control over what you choose to send out. The control you do have over what women send into your world consists of how you receive it and respond to it. For example, if your date criticizes your political choices, attitudes, or candidate, you are not going to change his or her mind by arguing. There is little to be gained from attempting to mind-read or to change the other person’s attitude. However, if you remember your own private space and your imaginary wall, you will realize you have many options. You can choose to believe that your date intended to hurt you, or that one of you has to be right and one wrong. Any of these choices will lead to a negative, hurtful response from you, and most likely create a clash or cupid online dating. Or, you can choose to assume that your date is intelligent and loving and wants to discuss the matter with you rationally. If you choose to respond with Tell me more or Why do you feel that is true? you are more likely to have a good, productive talk with the other person. If you choose to respond with Tell me more or Why do you feel that is true? you are more likely to have a good, productive talk with the other person.
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